Sometimes I feel as if all the scratches left by the time has been rubbed. I am now a free, happy fully contented tranquil soul. But few days back, it so happened that I felt to tell everything to one of my friend. We are good friends but after his marriage limits appeared in our relationship. The time we used to spend together, our gossips, our roaming, everything condensed. Anyways every relationship changes with time and it is best to change ourselves accordingly. I don’t know what made me to share everything with him and one day I told him everything about the latest happenings in my life. He didn’t say anything…..no words to soothe you! Just nothing! But he just kept his hand on my head. I love when others keep their hands on my head. I felt so weak and felt how much still I need care and support of someone. I still haven’t grown-up to face everything alone what my life has to offer. I just wanted to hug him there only, on the road and wanted to cry on his shoulder. But I saw the space that time has created. And I continued to walk like a programmed robot.
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February 24, 2010 by neilina
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“Rishton ka roop badalta hain; buniyaadein khatam nahi hoti !! ”
We all need someone to hold us near; bless our lives no matter how much mature we become; how much we grow up. You will keep meeting people who will bless your life.
Cheers
That justifies the famous saying ‘Happiness doubles when shared while sorrows get halved’. Take care!
We always to keep someone near us… everyone of us keep on searching that “someone” restlessly until we find someone. that “one” is found after many days, and he/she is more imaginary than from the reality. therefore, we expect much from that individual and gets very less….
then… we are pained..
but the fact I always realize is, this is normal that we will not be able to keep ppl around us… forever… rather, we have to make some ‘nearer’ ppl from the new environment of new ppl around….as time changes, pplz around us also changes…
you are never alone.. we are never alone… take care lina…
It isnt a weakness to acknowledge that you need someone to be there when you feel vulnerable. I think that takes courage. Relationships change, that doesnt mean what is felt does, that doesnt, only the way it is expressed changes.
Its only human to want somebody to comfort u. Everybody needs to be loved, cared n comforted. Its not weakness, its a human need.
After marriage dimensions of relationship change. The reason why ur friend didnt react was could be because he felt helpless or maybe a harmless hug could have complicated things.
Cheer up n Take care!